Blog About Dating

Young men are taught that their urges is crude and silly, and that it is just a favor that women ALLOWS them to mate with them.

There’s another societal factor going on, that I call the “doofus dad” syndrome. In almost every TV commercial and sitcom, the “dad” or “boyfriend” or “husband” is a dopey, incompetent goof, and the mom/daughter/girlfriend/wife has to use her superior intelligence to fix the situation.

This leads to the perception that women are “better,” and thus, their time is more valuable than yours.

If your time is not so valuable, then you will feel obligated to give her LOTS OF IT.

But here’s the thing - you won’t be present for most of that time, if you are giving a woman too much time. You will be distracted, resentful, you will give her your “half-assed” attention.

I realized this after analyzing tons and tons of dates I went on with women.

After a while I started giving women smaller amounts of my time, but my FULL ATTENTION.

Aside from making our time better, this creates a VAST ATTRACTION because I left women craving more.

Now my girlfriends can’t get enough of me - in fact, I don’t GIVE THEM “enough.”

You see, “enough” would mean, “overexposure” to me, and women can’t be pulled to what they already have.

The proper way to manage your time is by being HONEST. And I don’t recommend you to play games with women and pretend to be busy or whatever.

Just be real with her - don’t spend more time that you want. no need of games.

Focus on your personal goals, and enjoy whatever free time you have with women. Be a man on the go.

Now it requires that in a short span of time that you can be able to meet a lot of women, which I’ll have to take up in another newsletter.

It makes me sad to see men waste their lives chasing and “putting up with” women, and then they are buried in their coffin ALONE.

Women aren’t property that you can keep or somehow take with you when you die. Think about that.

You can’t “keep” a woman by investing all your time with her.

One more thing here - if you start being honest with the amount of time you are willing give to a woman, you may feel GUILTY.

It’s either a girl will try to make you feel guilty, or you will feel it on your own. This is ok, it just means you have a weak focus.

You see, if you are following your true path, it will usually stray from the social norm.

If you are in the mental habit of adopting the values others try to impose onto you, you will most likely experience some discomfort, tension, guilt, even loneliness at first.

That is why I discover and develop the Attraction Code. You can learn about self-control, finding true path, and letting the real ‘you’ deep within.

And no, we don’t try to impose our values or goals onto you. We think you’ll be able to do that for yourself, given the proper guidance.

Vin

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