Blog About Dating

Are you interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a “10″ kind of a woman? If yes, then you will find the letter very interesting.

But before anything else, let’s go waaaay back…

It was in my high school, that there was a girl in my class who was seems so perfect.

She was intelligent, cool, and so beautiful that it was hard to look at her (and yet I couldn’t stop my eyes looking)…

She was one of the popular kids in school but was so nice and friendly to everyone.

Occasionally we talked and as I look back I realize that we were flirting (I was so stupid to realize at that time).

I wanted to ask her to senior prom so badly…but I chickened out at the last minute.

It was a few years later that I realized that the girl had a crushed on me all the senior year.

I’ve talked to a lot of guys and this experience seems pretty common, there was this ONE SPECIAL GIRL who you crushed on from afar, or you missed an opportunity with her, or she broke your heart…

Ah, the elusive “10,” the perfect girl that every guy wants but never seems to attain.

I have so many things to say about this so-called “10’s.” In one word they are women of another “breed,” but at the same time, what makes them so is in the way they think.

Understanding your own fascination with female perfection, and understanding the reality of extremely beautiful women will help you resolve this conundrum, and maybe help you find that “perfect girl” for yourself.

First of all, “10″ is just a myth. No human being can be considered as perfect. You CANNOT say that a woman who looks prettier than the women is more “valuable”.

A woman that turns you on and have a great chemistry with you is the only true “10″ and is the one that’s perfect for you.

The world is full of 10’s, you just need to have the skills and ability to approach a lot of women and make an options for yourself.

It will be a failure on your part if you treat women differently just basing solely on looks or on whose much prettier.

Why?

Because a lot of guys do that.

A woman knows what you’re thinking and sees you as shallow.

But there certainly a type of women that seems to have an another “level” beauty than the rest. These women get treated much differently than other women.

You need to understand on how you will deal with these kinds of women.

As what I’ve said, you shouldn’t treat women “differently.”

Let me clarify.

You shouldn’t treat a woman BETTER than the other women. But there are things that you need to know.

First, she don’t like a guy that chases her for her looks alone.

More than anything else, a woman values a guy that appreciates her personality.

Now for the benefits of yours, I’ll give you a heads up.

The so-called “10’s” has two different types.

High self esteem, and low self-esteem.

The common type is the low self-esteem 10’s. The women that belongs to this group are used to being wanted for their looks and they know that they didn’t EARN an attention, so they have a guilt complex.

In fact, most of their lives they’ve probably coasted, and are complete dumbasses.

It may sounds not good but I call it like it is.

These women will respond to jerk behavior. They take away and flip out their validation will and do anything to get it back.

Anything.

(Aside from that, these women usually suck in bed and are total head cases when you get involved with them.)

Now high self-esteem 10’s are women that have had a taste of the elite -they realized early on that high levels of society were attainable to them, and they made an effort to be successful, intelligent, and make the most of their lives.

These women are motivated to put an extra effort because they know that they are just a little closer to a great life than everyone else.

Usually HSE 10’s are intellegent, have good attitudes, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.

Actually, most of beautiful women I’ve dated didn’t even go to the club. They like to spend their evenings being with their families, reading, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).

One of the interesting thing about this types of women are that they are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?

The women here have a high standards for themselves, and this makes most guys either too intimidated to approached and ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it’s seldom they meet another man who is at the same level with them.

But here’s the good news. You will find these women the easiest to attract when you understand The Attraction Code.

The Attraction Code is about being the best man you can be, being a “male 10.”

When you start to embody the Attraction Code you will surely notice an interesting thing.

Occasionally women that are less attractive will be rude to you and you’ll get an odd responses from them- that is because they know they’re not on your level - I call this as Auto-Rejection Mechanism. Some girls will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first.

But the most attractive, cool women will respond much differently… you’ll be surprised to see the most beautiful women warm right up to you as soon as you approach - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their “level.”

She thinks to herself, “finally, a guy who can hang with me; he’s confident and treats me like a real person. And he’s the only guy who’s actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car.”

The Attraction Code is meant for these kinds of women. And of course you’ll have plenty of “adventures” to enjoy with all kinds of women, but this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.

There are lot of 10’s out there waiting for you.

Don’t spend another year missing something that you could’ve been enjoying right now.

Vin

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