Blog About Dating

First of all, if you’re going for a one-night stand, there’s one thing you need to know — You won’t always be able to get the hottest girl in the venue to go home with you.

Bringing a girl home doesn’t based on whether she is open or not in going home with a guy, sure maybe you can her number but it varies widely on particular night.

However, in any bar, club, or even a day-time situation, there are LOTS of horny women who would be open to getting down with you that same day or night. You just have to know how to spot these women.

The things that I look in spotting them are in the way how they dressed, how much make-up they put on their face and other things that relates to how they look physically. Remember that there is a reason why women exert a lot of effort in order to look beautiful.

They want to be approached. This of course, isn’t always true, but is generally the case.

Another thing that you can spot that a woman is looking for attention is when she is being so loud and animated.

Lastly, I look for women who are looking around the room more than the other girls in their group. A lot of times, you’ll see groups of two or three women all standing around with blank expressions, scoping the room.

These are what women do in order for someone to notice and approach them.

Just take these in mind, that when you approach you don’t go into full-steam running your clever routines and cocky frame control stuff. You have to take it easy.

A simple “hey, you guys look great tonight. Special occasion?” is enough. It’s just have to be social, delicate and showing that you are interested in meeting them.

The key here is not to openly discuss getting in sensual or that you are looking to take her home. You see, if you talk about that, you’ll put her on the spot and make her agree to bang with you, implicitly.

Rather you want to build sensual tension, as we discuss heavily in our workshops.

This is against her “rules” and will force her to keep you at a distance. You’re also going to need logistical information, so that you can figure out how to get her back to your place when the time comes.

The important thing here is to act as NOT trying to pick her up and eliminating any overt sensual intention.

You have to be willing to let go of controlling the situation, and just enjoy yourself, while escalating appropriately.

Although it may seem as counter intuitive, but this is how it works.

You have to believe that women wants to have sex and a lot of women in the place wants to have a fast getting laid down.

Some won’t, but some will, and that’s why it’s key that you get a sense of what to look for, and how to proceed.

I know you don’t what to invest a lot of your time to pick the right girl and then just mess it up after a long interaction. Or to spend your time to a wrong girl or worse.

It will just be a waste of time.

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