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When you are trying to get your ex back, honesty counts. You need to be honest with your ex when the time comes for a talk but mostly you have to be honest with yourself.

You want your ex back badly, but do you know why? Many people in your situation react the way they do not from love, but from jealousy.

These people do not want to get back with an ex because they think it’s the right thing for both of them, but only because they can’t stand to see him or her with someone else.

It can sometimes be difficult to separate love from jealousy in our minds. But think hard about this because if it is really jealousy that is driving you then you are putting yourself, and probably your ex, through a lot of misery and pain for nothing and you’ll almost certainly fail in the end anyway.

When you are as sure as you can be that your reasons for wanting your ex back are not motivated mainly by jealousy then you have a some more honest thinking to do.

You have to think honestly and clearly about why the relationship ended.

And you have to be ready, even eager, to take your share of the responsibility for the break up.

In fact, the more you are to blame for the break up the better chance you have of getting your ex back.

Think of it this way.

You can’t change your ex. So if you bear no responsibility for the ending of your relationship then there is nothing you can change to get your ex back.

If the break up was your fault though, then you have the opportunity to make changes to yourself that may help you to renew the relationship.

So take heart and be brave. Look at yourself and your relationship with your ex in hard, honest light and you will be giving yourself the best possible chance of getting your ex back.

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