What are women attracted to?
It’s the age old question that psychologists, sociologists, and pick up artists have been pondering since the beginning of time. If you ask any guy on the street he’ll likely say money. While it often appears that money is what attracts a woman to a man, there’s actually more to it. Next time you see a guy driving the shiny red BMW with a hot girlfriend in the passenger seat, realize this: it’s not necessarily the money he possesses but his social status.
Money is a necessity, there is no getting around that. You need food, clothing, and shelter to survive so unless you’re a hut-building, fashion designing farmer then you will literally need money to survive. The more money you have, the more luxuries you can afford. A woman needs to know that the man she is dating can provide for her and be a source of strength; he needs to be bringing something to the table. So, naturally, the more money a man possesses, the more suitable and capable he is of providing for a woman and offering a higher standard of living. But this does not make him more attractive.
Have you ever seen the guy in the fancy tailored suit and the flashy watch buying overpriced bottles of champagne in the club trying to impress the women in his VIP section? I’m pretty sure one of the first words that came to your mind was “douchebag”. Sure, he may have taken one of those girls home but they were likely gold diggers. They weren’t so much attracted to him as they were attracted to the lifestyle he could provide for them. Most women see right through this act of showmanship and bravado, and they can identify it as weakness; a false sense of security. These guys are shallow and not all of these guys are getting laid. You’d be surprised at how few of them actually are.
When it comes to attraction, women are much more complex. It only takes a nice set of tits or a beautifully sculpted ass for a man to be attracted to a woman. A woman’s attraction to a man is more psychological. Sure, women generally prefer taller men with a head full of hair but they aren’t only looking for physical traits. Women need strong leaders, they’re subconsciously attracted to men who are more successful, popular, and influential than they are. This is where social status comes into play.
Women generally want the alpha male. An alpha male is a leader, a strong man who breaks through barriers and provides for those that are close to him. This cannot be determined through material possessions. Having lots of money doesn’t make you an alpha male it just makes you a male with money. Women have developed the intuition to seek out alpha males by judging a man’s behavior. It’s all about how you carry yourself, how you interact with people, and how people interact with you.
By judging a man’s behavior, a woman can quickly weed out the weak men from the strong. They can tell who has the “it” factor that women look for and they can tell who’s faking “it”. Not only do women prefer to date guys who’ve got “it”, they also like to date guys with the potential to develop “it.” This is why you see the starving artist who seems to have a new girlfriend every other week although his bank account has more red than his last painting. When you become a man of high social standing, people react to you differently. They treat you with not only respect, but they honor you. This is why I constantly preach about following your purpose and becoming the best version of you. When you work on yourself and develop self confidence, you approach the world differently and people will react accordingly. You essentially become a man of high value and therefore more attractive.
Remember, the guys in the club with the fancy cars and watches aren’t all getting laid. Women see through materialism and are generally repulsed by these shallow displays. Women are generally attracted to men who are more successful and powerful than they are, and while money comes as a result of success and power, it’s not what they are attracted to. Become a man of high social status because this is what women want.